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Let’s talk about how to regain trust after you fucked up like cheating on him or breaking up with him or just losing the person’s trust.
Generally speaking, it’s a lot easier to tear down a building than to build one up. It requires less thinking and less intuition but to build a building requires a lot of work, patience, and consistency.
It’s the same when you lose someone’s trust, it’s extremely difficult to regain it at least at the level that it used to be. There will always be a slight edge of resentment, a little doubt per se and no matter how good of an individual someone is, that’s still going to be in the back of their minds. It will require a lot of emotional maturities for someone to be able to let go of it.
The first thing to do to gain their trust again is to try not to find the quick route. The issue is it’s very transparent. When you become predictable, it will show you have hidden intentions so the most important thing is coming unassuming and contrite in terms of apologizing and your mentality.
You got to stop trying to get them to trust you because it’s going to be tainted with ulterior motives that people can feel and it puts their guard up.
Be undefensive because you don’t want to be giving off the impression that you’re trying to give off an impression. Look seamlessly and natural. Look within yourself and learn how to have compassion for yourself and forgive yourself. The lack of forgiveness you have for yourself will cause you to judge and antagonize yourself.
A lot of times, I don’t try to change the behavior. I try to change the source of the behavior which always comes from the emotions.
give very thoughtful gifts BUT don’t give it initially. Take your time and notice what the person wants and needs. The more creative it is and the less money you spend, the better. You don’t want to point that you spent money, which is the easy route, to give them a gift. Make him notice that you put a lot of thought into it.
Also, don’t force it. You have to forgive the person for the vulnerability they’re going to show because they’ll be very defensive around you. You have to be okay with it because you fucked up.
Know where you stand, know what you can offer and know what you have to lose. The less you tried to show what you changed and you change on your own through naturally focusing on it and not the incentive of getting the person back the better.
The fastest route to changing is through meditation. It promotes neuroplasticity which helps you be malleable and it helps you be less resistant to new ideas.
Visualize the kind of person you want to come across, visualize the kind of reputation you want to have amongst your peers and your partner and make these visualizations an obsession.
Make sure that the vision you see is a view of you showing that you’re faithful but at the same time not trying. Be natural and make it specific. Envision yourself achieving something and being happy. The most important part is seeing the outcome of how you feel.
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OMG dalexis actually does have a video on every single topic it's crazy lol
But what can you do if u cheat as in if u give another man ur body
You explain things soo good, like you have inside information from my relationships and life 🤫 thanks for breaking things down and helping me understand a little better how to act around guys. I definetly see that I have made a lot of mistakes, and have to own that.
Golden info ✨️
How much does it cost for relationship counseling?
I need help .. My first love and I have been in a rough place. I don't think he will ever look at me the same.. But I can't see my life/future without him. But I know he will never look at me like he used to
Why are u soo pretty?
In my situation I wanted to gain trust from my love but the things is we are LDR and i don't know how to do and express my honesty and I want hia trust to coe back again.
So yesterday I was with my bf Nd I recorded us kissing he told me not to show nobody Nd I showed 2 people they bothe showed the whole world after I told them not to Nd today I came to school everybody knew Nd my bf was mad at me Nd he broke up with me I really want him back I try to pray I’ll do anything to get him back😢😫
Good shit
What if he hates you and wants nothing to do with u? Is there a video? I'm losing hope 😭 hes a very stubborn leo and I bruised his ego and lost his trust
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Your vision is amazing! God bless. X
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO!
I did exactly what your'e talking about. i became the change myself. i wasn't cheating, just didnt give loyal impression.. a bit flirty. he agreed to try again, i changed, and it was perfect but he can't let go from this. after a month, he just gave up and broke up with me, saying that once hes closed he can't be opened up again. what's the best i can do right now? he just gave up!
I would enjoy having you as my best friend … where have you been all my life … omg your like bear that I would cry and cuddle with lol
you make me remember one of my cutest female friend i had back in convent.she quite resembles u. :'))
Dose the no contact rule work?
I love that beautiful mind of yours!You're awesome!! Keep up the excellent work!
Something I've noticed within the last few years is this deeper awareness and genuine honesty that people, like yourself, have divulged on the internet. I'm watching youtube tonight waiting for a hangover to pass, but also because human relationships are my passion. Your talks are bold without being confrontational, and you seem to have a type of intelligence that goes beyond strictly social intelligence, and even personal experience. Is what I'm saying something that you recognize? And, not that it matters, but have you been specifically educated in what it is that you're doing? I'm carving my way through life figuring out how to basically have the same effect, just with nature added to human identity. Thanks.
Thanks for your response about my question about your views on my bf being friends with an ex.Scenario: he opened up to me,he said that another 'ex' of hers have been tormenting her and that she and her child could be in danger, child is not my bfs or this 'ex's,but she's only told my bf and then got him to promise not to tell anyone else about the problem.the tormenting has been going on for months but she's not done anything about it,not told the police or her family,my bf now wants to play superman for her and show support,I told him nope,does this sound like a trap to you,anyone that reads this what you all think?gracias
Alex please do a second Ex back Video
How do you figure out what a man's ego and fantasy is? Ways to learn about their darkest fantasy and desire 😈 @M.A. 2.0
Can u go more deeply into ego attraction vs love?
Tks for ur hard work. I respect your effort in helping people become more mindful. U offer people a great gift.
How do I get advice from you personally 😭😭 I'm in a horrible situation 😔
If you took notes during this video, i would LOVE them, specially if they're detailed. I would like to put them in the description.